Someone will always question you and your approach, DO WHAT YOU CAN LIVE WITH!

If you can live with~ not attending a function, not truly supporting those that support you and carry on. I guess that’s your choice.

If you are like me and put your loved ones first. You will find yourself going, even if the timing isn’t perfect, even if you wish you had more time, even when you have a list of ‘things to do’ waiting on you!

We are not promised tomorrow! I have been gauging my life by what I can live with, since before I was even an adult. Being the oldest sibling and having “mother hen” qualities, I have been looked up to by my siblings. When they have asked my opinion or are even making a choice I disagree with, my response has often been, “do what you can live with!”

It isn’t for anyone else to decide what you can live with! Some parts of our journey may come with regrets, I am doing my best to make decisions based on having no regrets!

This blog post has been on my heart because I feel as though I have lost some of my loved ones, who are still living. It feels brutal, sad, disheartening. I know in my heart that I have given my all. I am human and am the first to forgive those that have hurt or wronged me. I also have learned how important boundaries are to protect my own heart!

At this stage of life I have found quiet. I have found that when I am hurting because I am human~ that sometimes no words are the best ones. Let things settle and see where they go from here. As for me, I will continue to do what I can live with!

Stay Rosy, Amber

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