Take a bird’s eye view of the situation before choosing to react. A change in position can change everything. Today while thinking about what to write and what to title this blog entry.. I remembered how seeing things from a different perspective can be so helpful! A bird’s eye view can be an attempt or technique>> to take yourself out of yourself and possibly see yourself the way others may see you!

When thinking about what’s relevant in my life now~ I see that I have people in my life that portray some of the same characteristics that I see in myself! It hurts my heart to think that others will push people away when they need them the most! Thankfully my husband gets this about me and can help me navigate it very well!

It can feel scary to envision yourself the way others do. It also can be very enlightening. I am very carefree, dislike confrontation and believe I am here on God’s green earth to feel good and help make others feel good too!!! Kindness can be mistaken for weakness. “Kindness is not typically associated with strength but, in actual fact, sometimes it’s the strongest people who are able to be the kindest; they don’t feel the need to use defences, or put up barriers to protect themselves, and can therefore offer genuine kindness because they feel safe and secure with who they are.” I am the girl that thinks rose colored glasses can be the best approach!!💗 Find the best in others, believe and see the good, squeeze out the good parts of our daily lives!

My life’s purpose has become seeking happiness. I am one of the most understanding people I know. Honestly, it’s one of my best and worst characteristics! What I do know is, learning emotional intelligence is crucial for self-care and good relationships!

Human unhappiness is a real thing! There are two main reasons we become unhappy: Pain and Boredom. There is no way to permanently avoid these.

Sometimes depressed people feel like they’re burdening their loved ones with their problems, and they push them away to try to minimize their perceived damages. And sometimes depression can cause people to feel irritated and lash out, and want to stay away from their loved ones.

To stop the pattern of pushing people away, you can follow these tips.

Self-reflection. Understand the underlying reasons for pushing people away….

Develop emotional intelligence….

Improve your communication skills. …

Challenge negative self-talk. …

Set healthy boundaries.

We’ve all got the right to decide how many people we want in our lives. We get to choose how close we want to be to them in order to feel satisfied. But whether you’re a happy hermit or the life and soul of the party, pushing away the people you love can be a sign of deeper problems.

If you think you’re showing signs of pushing people away as a defense mechanism, think carefully. Is it a way to cope with past experiences? Is it a warning sign of depression?

Take time to focus on yourself and your feelings to determine the real issues.

Overcoming a fear of intimacy might be as straightforward as having a few difficult conversations. It could involve a longer journey.

Either way, honest self-reflection is the first step toward deeper, more meaningful connections.

Take a bird’s eye view and start the journey of your best life today!

Stay Rosy, Amber🤍🤟

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